Does Networking Work? Only If You Do.

Last Updated: 02/25/2026

People love to romanticize networking as if attending a couple of mixers will magically make business fall into your lap. Some imagine strangers handing them referrals simply because they showed up and shook a few hands. Let’s be honest.

Wrong.

Networking works, but only when you work. It’s not luck. It’s not magic. It’s relationship‑building, consistency, and showing up with intention. Across referral groups, chambers of commerce, service clubs, and community organizations, even in the smallest towns, one truth remains constant: People do business with people they know, like, and trust.

That’s the foundation. That’s the formula. That’s the whole game.

Know. Like. Trust.

People need to know what you do. They need to like who you are. And they need to trust that you’ll deliver like you say you will.

If they don’t trust you, they won’t work with you. If they don’t know what you offer, they can’t hire you. If they don’t like you… Well, that’s not always a deal‑breaker. I’ve done long‑term business with people who weren’t exactly fans of mine. But trust? That’s non‑negotiable.

Networking is simply the process of letting people discover your value — and giving them the confidence to refer you when the opportunity arises.

Three Types of Networkers (And What They Teach Us)

There are many kinds of networkers, but these three show up everywhere.

1. The Card Slinger

You know the type. Before you even catch their last name, their business card is already in your hand. 

It’s a pet peeve of mine because it creates an awkward moment. You either take the card you didn’t ask for or reject it, which feels rude. The truth is simple: if someone wants your information, they’ll ask for it. That’s your invitation to take the relationship one step further.

Networking is not about distributing paper. It’s about creating a connection.

2. The Net Eater

I’ll admit it, I’ve been this guy. I’m a foodie. Sometimes the menu determines whether I attend an event.

But here’s the trick: show up early. Arrive 20 to 30 minutes before the crowd so you can actually eat before you talk to people. If food distracts you, eat beforehand. You’re there to meet professionals, not hover over the buffet… unless it’s BBQ. Then all bets are off.

And be mindful of alcohol. Some people handle it well. Others… become “less endearing.” Networking is not the time to test your limits.

3. The Adonis

This is the networker who walks in like they’re above everyone else. They make others feel small, unimportant, or beneath them.

That attitude kills opportunity. Networking is about connection, not comparison. You never know who knows who or what doors they can open.

Humility wins. Every time.

Marketing at Networking Events

Networking events are prime opportunities to put promotional products to work. Whether you’re presenting, donating a raffle item, or hosting a booth, swag can make you memorable long after the event ends.

Common items that perform well include journals, pens, lip balms, mugs, and other practical pieces people actually use. At expos and community events, like chamber gatherings, Rotary picnics, parades, and tradeshows. Items such as lanyards, stickers, drawstring backpacks, and screen cleaners are always a hit.

Good promotional products don’t sit on tables. They leave with people. And they get used.

That’s the whole point.

A Word About MLM Professionals

Multi‑level marketers have a mixed reputation, but here’s the truth: some of the most skilled networkers I’ve ever met come from MLM backgrounds. They understand relationship building, follow‑up, and consistency better than most industries.

One of my closest friends is a Mary Kay director with over 40 years of experience and more than 100 dealers under her. She runs newsletters, hosts weekly luncheons, and pours into her team. Her creativity and business insight are invaluable. I would’ve missed all of that knowledge if I’d dismissed her because of her industry.

Another friend sells Tupperware. She once introduced me to a doctor’s office she worked with, which became a client and then my doctor. When my contact there moved to a law group, that office became a client too. That single connection turned into years of business and a genuine friendship.

Never underestimate the power of networking. Opportunities often come from the most unexpected places.

So… Does Networking Work?

Absolutely.

But only if you show up consistently. Only if you build real relationships. Only if you treat people with respect. Only if you follow up. Only if you work at it.

Networking isn’t a shortcut. It’s a strategy. And when done right, it’s one of the most powerful tools you have.

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